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		<title>By: December Quinn</title>
		<link>http://www.staciakane.net/2007/01/08/i-am-a-terrible-pen-pal/#comment-1259</link>
		<dc:creator>December Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 23:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I believe Liquid Silver doesn&#039;t require HEA. They&#039;re someone to try.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anything I can do to help...let me know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I believe Liquid Silver doesn&#8217;t require HEA. They&#8217;re someone to try.</p>
<p>Anything I can do to help&#8230;let me know.</p>
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		<title>By: kis</title>
		<link>http://www.staciakane.net/2007/01/08/i-am-a-terrible-pen-pal/#comment-1258</link>
		<dc:creator>kis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 22:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, December, that&#039;s very kind of you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mostly I&#039;ve been checking out which pubs have stories similar to mine in style and--I don&#039;t know the right word--philosophy? I&#039;m about 20 000 words into what I&#039;m hoping will be a category-length ER, but I&#039;m not envisioning the traditional Cinderella ending for it (or for any of my stories, really). That kind of narrows the field a bit, but it looks like there&#039;s still options for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another thing I&#039;m really paying attention to is the quality of the excerpts offered on the websites. My interest in certain publishers is waning, the more typos I find in the bits that are supposed to attract readers. And any website that&#039;s hard to navigate brings that pub down a notch, too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The EREC site is very helpful, and I&#039;ll definitely be in touch with you as I get closer to finishing. Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, December, that&#8217;s very kind of you. </p>
<p>Mostly I&#8217;ve been checking out which pubs have stories similar to mine in style and&#8211;I don&#8217;t know the right word&#8211;philosophy? I&#8217;m about 20 000 words into what I&#8217;m hoping will be a category-length ER, but I&#8217;m not envisioning the traditional Cinderella ending for it (or for any of my stories, really). That kind of narrows the field a bit, but it looks like there&#8217;s still options for me.</p>
<p>Another thing I&#8217;m really paying attention to is the quality of the excerpts offered on the websites. My interest in certain publishers is waning, the more typos I find in the bits that are supposed to attract readers. And any website that&#8217;s hard to navigate brings that pub down a notch, too.</p>
<p>The EREC site is very helpful, and I&#8217;ll definitely be in touch with you as I get closer to finishing. Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: kis</title>
		<link>http://www.staciakane.net/2007/01/08/i-am-a-terrible-pen-pal/#comment-1257</link>
		<dc:creator>kis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 22:36:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, December, that&#039;s very kind of you. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Mostly I&#039;ve been checking out which pubs have stories similar to mine in style and--I don&#039;t know the right word--philosophy? I&#039;m about 20 000 words into what I&#039;m hoping will be a category-length ER, but I&#039;m not envisioning the traditional Cinderella ending for it (or for any of my stories, really). That kind of narrows the field a bit, but it looks like there&#039;s still options for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another thing I&#039;m really paying attention to is the quality of the excerpts offered on the websites. My interest in certain publishers is waning, the more typos I find in the bits that are supposed to attract readers. And any website that&#039;s hard to navigate brings that pub down a notch, too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The EREC site is very helpful, and I&#039;ll definitely be in touch with you as I get closer to finishing. Thanks again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, December, that&#8217;s very kind of you. </p>
<p>Mostly I&#8217;ve been checking out which pubs have stories similar to mine in style and&#8211;I don&#8217;t know the right word&#8211;philosophy? I&#8217;m about 20 000 words into what I&#8217;m hoping will be a category-length ER, but I&#8217;m not envisioning the traditional Cinderella ending for it (or for any of my stories, really). That kind of narrows the field a bit, but it looks like there&#8217;s still options for me.</p>
<p>Another thing I&#8217;m really paying attention to is the quality of the excerpts offered on the websites. My interest in certain publishers is waning, the more typos I find in the bits that are supposed to attract readers. And any website that&#8217;s hard to navigate brings that pub down a notch, too.</p>
<p>The EREC site is very helpful, and I&#8217;ll definitely be in touch with you as I get closer to finishing. Thanks again.</p>
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		<title>By: December Quinn</title>
		<link>http://www.staciakane.net/2007/01/08/i-am-a-terrible-pen-pal/#comment-1256</link>
		<dc:creator>December Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 10:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, littlebirdblue. Like I said, I don&#039;t want to sound ungratfeul or like I&#039;m bitching about what was said--it&#039;s good, very helpful advice, gotten for free. It just required a little more bravery than I expected, I guess. :-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kis, I love Rachel Vater and Jenny Rappaport--they&#039;re both at the top of my query list. BookEnds is a fun blog too but they don&#039;t really rep urban fantasy like my project, which sucks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know what you mean. I tend to take little breaks as well. I don&#039;t comment at Miss S as often as I used to--it&#039;s really only if I have something to really add anymore. I go in cycles with my websites and stuff, maybe you do too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which publishers are you looking at? I know someone published with just about everyone, so email me if you&#039;re looking for specific info you can&#039;t find anywhere else.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, littlebirdblue. Like I said, I don&#8217;t want to sound ungratfeul or like I&#8217;m bitching about what was said&#8211;it&#8217;s good, very helpful advice, gotten for free. It just required a little more bravery than I expected, I guess. <img src='http://www.staciakane.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Kis, I love Rachel Vater and Jenny Rappaport&#8211;they&#8217;re both at the top of my query list. BookEnds is a fun blog too but they don&#8217;t really rep urban fantasy like my project, which sucks.</p>
<p>I know what you mean. I tend to take little breaks as well. I don&#8217;t comment at Miss S as often as I used to&#8211;it&#8217;s really only if I have something to really add anymore. I go in cycles with my websites and stuff, maybe you do too.</p>
<p>Which publishers are you looking at? I know someone published with just about everyone, so email me if you&#8217;re looking for specific info you can&#8217;t find anywhere else.</p>
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		<title>By: kis</title>
		<link>http://www.staciakane.net/2007/01/08/i-am-a-terrible-pen-pal/#comment-1255</link>
		<dc:creator>kis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 03:18:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;If it&#039;s any consolation, I don&#039;t do Senorita Snark anymore.&lt;/i&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I used to visit there religiously, and frequently commented, but the momentum seems to be fading. There&#039;s just too much--I read the Q&amp;A, but never the comments anymore. I still visit EE every day, but I don&#039;t comment much there either. I&#039;m kind of in a heavy research mode right now, and doing less &quot;playing,&quot; if you get my meaning. I promised myself I&#039;d only waste time if it gives me the warm fuzzies, and that&#039;s not too many places, really. Even Agent Kristin, whom I adore, doesn&#039;t get more than a cursory visit from me these days.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&#039;ve actually been finding Rachel Vater&#039;s and Jenny Rappaport&#039;s blogs to be hugely helpful and entertaining, and of course my one really guilty pleasure is the smart bitches. But right now, I&#039;m mostly reading what&#039;s available for free in ero-rom, researching publishers and trying to spend at least two or three hours a day actually putting words on--well, not paper, but at least on screen.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>If it&#8217;s any consolation, I don&#8217;t do Senorita Snark anymore.</i> </p>
<p>I used to visit there religiously, and frequently commented, but the momentum seems to be fading. There&#8217;s just too much&#8211;I read the Q&#038;A, but never the comments anymore. I still visit EE every day, but I don&#8217;t comment much there either. I&#8217;m kind of in a heavy research mode right now, and doing less &#8220;playing,&#8221; if you get my meaning. I promised myself I&#8217;d only waste time if it gives me the warm fuzzies, and that&#8217;s not too many places, really. Even Agent Kristin, whom I adore, doesn&#8217;t get more than a cursory visit from me these days.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve actually been finding Rachel Vater&#8217;s and Jenny Rappaport&#8217;s blogs to be hugely helpful and entertaining, and of course my one really guilty pleasure is the smart bitches. But right now, I&#8217;m mostly reading what&#8217;s available for free in ero-rom, researching publishers and trying to spend at least two or three hours a day actually putting words on&#8211;well, not paper, but at least on screen.</p>
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		<title>By: littlebirdblue</title>
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		<dc:creator>littlebirdblue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 03:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I enjoyed Mr. Craig in *Layer Cake*.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And about the hook comment- if only it was so easy to see the strengths in everyone&#039;s Snarked pages!  You&#039;re a brave lady.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I enjoyed Mr. Craig in *Layer Cake*.</p>
<p>And about the hook comment- if only it was so easy to see the strengths in everyone&#8217;s Snarked pages!  You&#8217;re a brave lady.</p>
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		<title>By: December Quinn</title>
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		<dc:creator>December Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 00:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry, kis, for some reason I didn&#039;t see your comment earlier. Yes, I had an issue, but trust me the moderation is NOT staying. It&#039;s horrible.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hadn&#039;t heard that about Brad Pitt. Funny, someone on AW mentioned how thin Angelina Jolie looks lately, and someone else replied, &quot;Yeah, but all the woman BP dates do that.&quot; Hadn&#039;t occurred to me until then. So maybe he&#039;s really a huge dickhead.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gotta watch Troy...as soon as I finish watching my favorite Troy, as in Dr. Christian, in the bootleg DVDs of Nip/Tuck Season 4 my best friend sent me! They&#039;re just starting to show this season on TV here and I couldn&#039;t wait. Don&#039;t worry, I&#039;ll still buy the DVDs when they come out. I&#039;m no thief.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wouldn&#039;t be complaining if it was my beloved Aragorn. I think it was Philip Seymour Hoffman, who I do adore, really I do. I just hink it&#039;s a shame Eric wasn&#039;t even nominated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thank you, thank you...I don&#039;t know that I&#039;d say unjustifiably harsh (although I sure appreciate &lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; saying it, lol), but I admit to being disappointed. I didn&#039;t think it was great, but I didn&#039;t think it was that bad, and certainly I thought there were worse examples that she seemed to like better. But that&#039;s why it&#039;s personal taste. I actually think the lack of comments hurt me more than what Miss S said. I knew she was being deliberately cold and harsh--she emailed me to tell me so. But I hoped the Snarklings would have more to say, especially after they liked the hook so much. Anyway, thanks so much. I feel much better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I guess I&#039;m chatty too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry, kis, for some reason I didn&#8217;t see your comment earlier. Yes, I had an issue, but trust me the moderation is NOT staying. It&#8217;s horrible.</p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t heard that about Brad Pitt. Funny, someone on AW mentioned how thin Angelina Jolie looks lately, and someone else replied, &#8220;Yeah, but all the woman BP dates do that.&#8221; Hadn&#8217;t occurred to me until then. So maybe he&#8217;s really a huge dickhead.</p>
<p>Gotta watch Troy&#8230;as soon as I finish watching my favorite Troy, as in Dr. Christian, in the bootleg DVDs of Nip/Tuck Season 4 my best friend sent me! They&#8217;re just starting to show this season on TV here and I couldn&#8217;t wait. Don&#8217;t worry, I&#8217;ll still buy the DVDs when they come out. I&#8217;m no thief.</p>
<p>I wouldn&#8217;t be complaining if it was my beloved Aragorn. I think it was Philip Seymour Hoffman, who I do adore, really I do. I just hink it&#8217;s a shame Eric wasn&#8217;t even nominated.</p>
<p>Thank you, thank you&#8230;I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;d say unjustifiably harsh (although I sure appreciate <i>you</i> saying it, lol), but I admit to being disappointed. I didn&#8217;t think it was great, but I didn&#8217;t think it was that bad, and certainly I thought there were worse examples that she seemed to like better. But that&#8217;s why it&#8217;s personal taste. I actually think the lack of comments hurt me more than what Miss S said. I knew she was being deliberately cold and harsh&#8211;she emailed me to tell me so. But I hoped the Snarklings would have more to say, especially after they liked the hook so much. Anyway, thanks so much. I feel much better.</p>
<p>I guess I&#8217;m chatty too.</p>
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		<title>By: December Quinn</title>
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		<dc:creator>December Quinn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 23:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh no, I didn&#039;t think anyone was intentionally being cold; just that I&#039;d hoped for more comments all around. No worries, Annie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks again, JTC...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh no, I didn&#8217;t think anyone was intentionally being cold; just that I&#8217;d hoped for more comments all around. No worries, Annie.</p>
<p>Thanks again, JTC&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Ann(ie)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ann(ie)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 23:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If it&#039;s any consolation, I don&#039;t do Senorita Snark anymore. It wasn&#039;t an intentional dissing of your efforts; I just don&#039;t read the blog. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If it&#8217;s any consolation, I don&#8217;t do Senorita Snark anymore. It wasn&#8217;t an intentional dissing of your efforts; I just don&#8217;t read the blog. <img src='http://www.staciakane.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: kis</title>
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		<dc:creator>kis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2007 21:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heh, I even liked Eric Bana in that bizarre Australian indie prison film where they make fun of his ears so he has his cellmate cut half of them off with a shiv. The irritation he displayed as the guy was slicing away--&quot;Hey theh, hurry up, I&#039;m bleedin ta death!&quot; Not &quot;Ow, ow, ow, ow!&quot; Just &quot;hurry.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I agree about Troy--EB was the best thing in it. I had a real hard time swallowing Brad Pitt as Achilles. (Not as hard a time as I had swallowing Colin Farrell as Alexander, though, what a freaking joke that was, IMO.) Did you know BP refused to wear sandals because he has &quot;ugly feet,&quot; and made the costume designer do anachronistic boots instead? How vain is that?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Who did win best actor? I never really follow the oscars (except during the LOTR years). Was it Viggo Mortensen--cause if it was him *drool, drool* I can forgive the committee.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, and I did read your pages over at Snarky&#039;s, though I didn&#039;t comment. I thought they were pretty good, especially for a rush job, and she was maybe unjustifiably tough on you. But that&#039;s just my opinion, and I don&#039;t have to read a billion queries and five billion pages a year. If I did, I&#039;d probably be a bit unforgiving (and bitchy and probably committed to a mental intitution by now). &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I&#039;ve come to the dawning realization--judging by what&#039;s being published in my genre (SFF)--that agents might actually be pickier than publishers. That may be the case for ER, and maybe even straight romantic fiction. Agents are all about &quot;fresh and new,&quot; but the ratio of &quot;fresh and new&quot; to &quot;same old same-old,&quot; in published books makes me wonder. Same with the writing.  I&#039;ve seen stuff published recently that can&#039;t remotely stand up to your writing--from big trade houses, no less. Something to think about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry to ramble. Just feeling talkative, I guess.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;BTW, what&#039;s with the comment moderation? Was somebody bad?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heh, I even liked Eric Bana in that bizarre Australian indie prison film where they make fun of his ears so he has his cellmate cut half of them off with a shiv. The irritation he displayed as the guy was slicing away&#8211;&#8221;Hey theh, hurry up, I&#8217;m bleedin ta death!&#8221; Not &#8220;Ow, ow, ow, ow!&#8221; Just &#8220;hurry.&#8221;</p>
<p>I agree about Troy&#8211;EB was the best thing in it. I had a real hard time swallowing Brad Pitt as Achilles. (Not as hard a time as I had swallowing Colin Farrell as Alexander, though, what a freaking joke that was, IMO.) Did you know BP refused to wear sandals because he has &#8220;ugly feet,&#8221; and made the costume designer do anachronistic boots instead? How vain is that?</p>
<p>Who did win best actor? I never really follow the oscars (except during the LOTR years). Was it Viggo Mortensen&#8211;cause if it was him *drool, drool* I can forgive the committee.</p>
<p>Oh, and I did read your pages over at Snarky&#8217;s, though I didn&#8217;t comment. I thought they were pretty good, especially for a rush job, and she was maybe unjustifiably tough on you. But that&#8217;s just my opinion, and I don&#8217;t have to read a billion queries and five billion pages a year. If I did, I&#8217;d probably be a bit unforgiving (and bitchy and probably committed to a mental intitution by now). </p>
<p>But I&#8217;ve come to the dawning realization&#8211;judging by what&#8217;s being published in my genre (SFF)&#8211;that agents might actually be pickier than publishers. That may be the case for ER, and maybe even straight romantic fiction. Agents are all about &#8220;fresh and new,&#8221; but the ratio of &#8220;fresh and new&#8221; to &#8220;same old same-old,&#8221; in published books makes me wonder. Same with the writing.  I&#8217;ve seen stuff published recently that can&#8217;t remotely stand up to your writing&#8211;from big trade houses, no less. Something to think about.</p>
<p>Sorry to ramble. Just feeling talkative, I guess.</p>
<p>BTW, what&#8217;s with the comment moderation? Was somebody bad?</p>
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