Even look at the way the two words are used as insults:

Cunt=heinous bitch, evil cow, AKA a woman who isn’t afraid to piss people off.

Pussy=sissy, wimp, milquetoast.

I’d rather be a bitch than a doormat. And I’d far rather be a cunt than a pussy, any day of the week.

As for “C U next Tuesday” in Sex and the City, I just found it funny that they left the euphemism in untranslated, even though 95% of the audience would not have understood it. As for the actual word “cunt”, it just occurred to me that since I’ve only seen the dubbed version it might have been lost in translation. As far as I recall, Sex and the City always used the German equivalent to “pussy” (similarly ugly), never the equivalent to “cunt”.

Queer As Folk is the only TV show where I’ve actually heard the word “cunt” said.

To be fair, the C-U-Next-Tuesday was a character point; Charlotte is fairly prissy so it was supposed to illustrate that. SATC has used the word before, but yes, every use generally illustrates the “women don’t like that word” trope, which I think is a shame, since they could have stood up for it and started to reclaim it.

As for “vagina,” I just don’t like it in sex scenes. I’m not a fan of any clinical words in sex scenes, though; I don’t use “penis” either. There’s nothing wrong with it as a word, but I think if you use it in sex scenes you run the risk of sounding like you’re giving a lecture in Health class.

Thanks!